The girls started school a few weeks ago. School is one of those double-edge swords around our house (as is anything that has to do with Matt and I leaving the girls.) I was so looking forward to some time to get a few things done around the house but also was dreading the whole separation anxiety both our girls seem to have (Naomi is 100x worse than Gabby!) I just don't know what it is about our girls. I mean yes, lots of kids cry at 12 or 18 moths....maybe up to 2. But seriously Naomi will be 5 in February. The pictures below are from the first day of school....and don't let the cute little smiles on their faces fool you.
Gabby went in to her class much better than Naomi. She does this "fake whine/cry" thing. Her teacher said really as soon as I was out of sight she was completly fine. I really don't think Gabby would have ever cried at the separation thing, but I think since all she has ever seen is Naomi's reaction, she just thinks that is what you are supposed to do.

Naomi was SOOOO excited about the lunch box we found. (Her pirate look in this picture cracks me up...she said it was too bright to take a picture!) I also am totally LOVING her ridiculous amount of silly bands. She is such a kid now.

So anyways, we are all talk in the Major household. We can promise no tears will be shed, no pulling of mommy's clothes. no high pitch shrieking, no running down hallways, no kicking, screaming, or any other ridiculous behavior will happen....but up until this point, it has all been just talk. The first day of school was like every other time I leave Naomi somewhere or leave her with someone other than me. She FREAKS out. Like you can not even imagine. All the kids in her class were looking at her like, "what is the deal with that child." All the parents were looking at me like, "why is that child acting like that?" Believe me, if I knew, well then it would not be an issue. We have done counseling, discipline, bribery....and so forth. NOTHING seems to work. I have these mix of emotions. I feel horribly guilty, sad, frustrated and angry all at the same time. I am just SO over it. I don't understand why my kids like me so much???? I am serious. I mean Matt and I feel like we are pretty good parents, we shower our children with love, but we also feel like in some ways we are pretty strict. We expect obedience. We do not pamper or let things slide.
It is just SOOO overwhelming. And school is just one place. Church is pretty bad too. WE do have ONE teacher that Naomi likes and most of the time can go in and hold it together. Baby-sitters are pretty much out of the question, bc they would be FREAKED out.
I just don't know what to do. Naomi is going to be in Kindergarten next year and seriously HAS to go to school. I don't want to have to drag her to school every day for the next 14 years. And homeschool really is not an option for Naomi right now. I honestly think it would be detrimental to her. As much as some kids need that environment (which I totally support) Naomi needs to be away from me. She needs to know that she can be safe, and have fun apart from mommy.
Well, now I am tired. I should go to bed. Suggestions for our crazy mommy/daddy loving daughters????